If you are doing this, you are probably a bit unattratctive ๐Ÿ˜’

Tuesday, 11 April 2017

So you are reading this post because you want to be attractive abi? You are welcome. ๐Ÿ˜
Let me tell you a story. This story inspired this post so I suggest you read carefully. 

It was my sister's birthday a few days ago and something strange happened. I put up a birthday post on facebook and the comments I got ehn , I still can't explain it. 

People kept saying 'Happy birthday to the nicest Adejoorin' ( that's my surname), 'Happy birthday to the nicest of the three of you.' and many strange things like that. The more of such comments I got on the post, the more confused I became. Not because my sister isn't nice but I am nice too na. Abi? Why should she be the nicest, what qualifies her for such a great honor.? Haha . Because really I could swear that I am the nicest of all.  So how come people think differently? Question for another post. 

Before you continue laughing at me, let me say that so many of us are like this. We think something of ourselves but the world sees something completely different. It's time to stop living in the clouds o. 

So if you ever thought you were attractive maybe you should read this first then you can reevaluate yourself. However, if you are doing any of the things I will mention today, you are probably un attractive. 

You are self absorbed
It's not big English. If all you think about is 'me me me.' People will not find you attractive. Nobody likes people who think the world revolves around them. You need to start caring about people or have you not heard that people don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. You should start caring about people. They will naturally become endeared to you. 

You are always in a competition 
There's a thin line between ambition and someone who sees everyone as a potential enemy.You are in a competition with your friends, your family, your co workers just because you want to always be seen as number one. People will start running away from you o. You may be thinking you are doing everything to be excellent but you are loosing friends and loved ones on the way.You don't always have to win. When you have this mindset you won't do just anything just to win.

You are tooooooooooo negative
Can you imagine how annoying it is to have one person who will never see anything good in a situation? Urghh it can be pretty annoying. If you are like that you better stop. You will just realize that nobody really wants to talk to you about their ideas or dreams. Because they are sure you will find something negative to say. They call such people bad belle. That's not a good testimony my dear. Even you will not want a friend like that so why will you want to be that person? Don't be a bad belle. 

You dwell too much on physical appearance
There's nothing more unattractive than a vain person. People who care only about physical beauty, material possessions, they are usually empty, or at most very shallow. Serous minded people wont be able to have a proper conversation with them that does not center around make up, the latest car or weave. These kind of people have stinking characters, deficient values systems and most times abysmally low self esteem. There's more to beauty than physical appearances. Kindness, hard work, intelligence is beautiful. Get that.  ๐Ÿ˜

If you realize that you have any of these traits, look around you and count the number of real friends you have, probably not so many. 

Isn't that proof enough that you need to change ? Come on you can be a bit more attractive and sweet. Everybody loves people with a good scent. What kinda scent are you giving the world? The one full of selfishness, hate or negativity or the one full of hope, support and selflessness. You choose! 

Much Love 
Oloriaddotun. 

2 comments:

  1. This is a good post. Nobody wants to associate with a negative person.


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    1. Very true Yvonne! Thank you for reading.

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